I hate when you say “I hate that song” and someone goes “well you have to admit it’s catchy”
the fucking plague is catchy that doesn’t mean it’s good
according to USA Today, the average tumblr user spends 2.5 hours a month on tumblr
oops
more like 2.5 hours a day
more like 2.5 hours an hour
Wow that’s amazing, I thought it was fake after seeing them draw on the paper. That alone is ingenious.
what the hell
oh my gOD
i was already dead at the dance dance revolution part
i want et
Și m-aș întoarce..
M-aș întoarce oriunde te-aș găsi pe tine.
if this is a girl, i’m a dude. married to another dude. oops
FUCK. THIS. SHIT.
Being a girl is not what defines your personality - because not enjoying starting a conversation, on itself, should be a personality trait, and boys or any other definition out there outside of the stupid gender binary are equally entitled to be shy or reserved. Personality is not defined by your gender, it’s an intrinsic part of your mental process and your outlooks in life. In fact, double fuck this shit because you got it all inverted - it’s who you are, what you think and feel and understand of the world around you and how you see yourself in that environment that defines your gender. If you’re not a conversation starter and you’re a girl that’s perfectly normal, but don’t try and establish a relation of cause and consequence between these facts otherwise you’ll be invalidating the whole experience of girls like me, who are extroverted thankyouverymuch, through your crass generalization.
And BEHOLD, you’re defining your behavior pattern by male response! “I don’t talk first because I don’t want to push guys away” - so you would, if they were to stay? Why in the burning flames of shame would anyone cancel their spontaineous action out of fear of others’ reaction in a potential relationship? If they don’t like you for who you are, for what you have to say, for your ideas and needs, then why would they be worthy of your attention in the first place?
There are so many fundamental mistakes on that one block of text that I just can’t.
I identify as female and I am an extrovert who starts every damn conversation, practically. But since the OP seems to think that only conversations with boys that have the potential to be romantic interests are valid and no other conversation counts in real life, let me just say that I have asked out every single guy I’ve ever dated. Hell, that’s not “needy and obsessive,” that’s being assertive! And guess what—almost all of the boys I asked out ended up being long(ish)-term relationships, instead of being “pushed away”! Not only is this post spewing stupid sexist generalizations, it’s promoting the outdated sense of “chivalry” that boys need to do all the talking and asking and girls just sit tight and let their boyfriends pay for everything.
